(BALTIMORE – February 4, 2025) – I didn’t write this post on my own—I was led to write it.
There will be no cavalry coming to “save us.” There was none for my ancestors. They did what had to be done—for their families and neighbors.
Today, as I sat in Morningstar Baptist Church, Woodland—attending morning service and evening Communion—I looked around at my church family, including Bishop Debnam and Lady Carla. I was struck by our unity, shared faith, and the Pastor’s reminder that our history is one of resilience—of people who, no matter what, stood firm in the strength of their faith and abilities.
And I wondered—how many professionals in our community understand this truth? How many still hold on to the illusion that our “professional badges” will save us?
I thought about what I could do. My passion is consulting and coaching within my community, but it’s not a six-figure return.
Still, I made a decision.
I decided I could offer more pro bono work to uplift leaders and organizations in our community. I decided I could skip my once-a-week coffee indulgence and donate to a nonprofit doing real work on the ground. I decided I could be more intentional with how I spend my money—supporting my own. I invited friends and colleagues to my home for a $25 dinner conversation, where we could dive deep into the challenges before us.
In the past, I might have seen this as a “waste” of time. But a dear friend, a former judge, reminded me of the power of coming together—strengthening our collective thinking.
Here’s how it will work:
- $15 of each $25 contribution will go directly to a nonprofit serving our community. We’ll draw a name from a hat at each dinner, and that nonprofit will receive the full amount raised. Guests will also learn about their work.
- The remaining $10 will help cover the costs of food and beverages.
This is just the beginning. Over the next four years, I know there is more I can do. But for now, I accept that no cavalry is coming. I must consider how to use my gifts, education, and experience to uplift those around me.
I will also examine “class differences among us” and “self-sabotaging behaviors” within our community. Am I guilty of them? I pray not. But I will examine myself, my friends, and my family—and speak up when necessary.
The cavalry is not coming. But we can be the change we need.
How will you invest in, partner with, and support our children, neighbors, and communities? Once you’ve identified how your skills, experience, and gifts can drive change—will you take action?
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